It doesn’t seem to matter what changes are made to the laws around drugs and alcohol, they will always be accessible somehow. As young people begin to go to parties, hang out away from the watchful eye of responsible adults and meet new people the possibility of you coming across alcohol and drugs increases. It’s likely then that your friends will become curious and consider experimenting. So, what can you do when this is all happening in front of you and you’re not sure what to do?
Believe it or not, you DO have a choice in the matter and regardless of what your concerns are, your friends (your real friends) will respect you making that choice even if it differs from theirs.
Our philosophy at Safeline is not to lecture young people. We don’t like the idea of telling you what to do. Instead we want to give you all the facts, all the possibilities, the knowledge and the skills to be able to make the right decision for yourself.
Just because your friends, your family or the people around you are doing something, it does not mean you are doomed to that same lifestyle, those same habits. If we all did the same things, we’d be clones of each other and that would make the world an extremely boring place. You are your own person, and an awesome person at that. You have the ability and the power to make your own decisions and choices and by having the confidence and willpower to do that will make you a stronger and more respected person; a leader.
Your friends will support you no matter what
Your real friends will not pressure you. They won’t make fun of you or desert you for saying no. If your so-called friends do this. They’re rubbish friends and you should find some new friends.
Go with your gut
If your gut is telling you you shouldn’t or that there is a risk and you’re uncomfortable, don’t do it. Our bodies are awesome and come in handy in situations like this.
The risks out-way the best-case scenarios every time
The risks with drinking too much and taking drugs are too great to take the gamble. There is a very thin line with alcohol especially on smaller bodies and with drugs, well you never know what you’re going to get. So really, is it worth it? Probably not.
It only takes a few seconds
The time it takes for you to say no is only really a few seconds. That whole negotiation period is a really short snippet of your day and night and although it might be awkward or unpleasant, once that’s done, everyone tends to just move on and get on with their lives. It’s not a big deal really.
Respect
People that stick to their guns and go against the grain generally tend to get the most respect. So, for your will-power and indifference you’ll most likely gain respect from your peers.
If you’re worried about you or a friend you can talk to these helpful and friendly organisations below and of course, you can always talk to Safeline via phone, text, email or instant message:
